Dan Doss & Pier Loven
Hi. Hello. Hey there.
September 26, 2026. A little hillside of grapevines about half an hour south of Raleigh. All our favorite people in one place, which, if we're being honest, is the whole point.
Bookmark this page. It's your one-stop shop for the weekend: what to wear, where to sleep, when to show up, and how to reach us when you inevitably forget one of those.
Dan Doss & Pier Loven
The day, at a glance
A rough sketch of the day. We'll lock the exact times as we get closer, and this page will always show the latest.
Roll in, grab a glass of bubbles, and find a seat in the vines.
The short-and-sweet part where we make it official.
Passed bites, a garden bar, and golden-hour photos we'll be showing our future kids.
Family-style feast in the ballroom. Wear pants with a little give.
The bar is open, the shoes are optional, and the DJ takes requests.
One last hug, one last photo, and off you go into the North Carolina night.
Where it's going down
Ten acres of grapevines, a warm little ballroom with gold lighting, and a butterfly garden between them. It's about thirty minutes south of downtown Raleigh and ten minutes off I-95, which is a fancy way of saying it's easy to get to and hard to leave.
Getting here & sleeping nearby
Fly into Raleigh-Durham (RDU) and point the car south. The hotels below are all a quick shot down I-40 or I-95, roughly 10 to 20 minutes from the venue.
The newest and closest hotel to Havenwing. Free breakfast, outdoor pool, and our top pick. We're working on setting up a room block here and will drop the booking code on this page once it's ready.
BookLiterally next door to the Hampton. Suites, indoor pool, free breakfast. A perfectly great Plan B.
BookSolid backup with an indoor pool and free breakfast. Bonus: it's a five-minute drive from Carolina Premium Outlets if you'd like to shop your way through Saturday morning.
BookFor our guests
Vineyard formal. Suits, cocktail dresses, jumpsuits, colors, prints, whatever makes you feel great. Two friendly warnings: you'll be on grass, so retire the stilettos, and pack a light layer because North Carolina evenings have opinions.
Fly into RDU, about 45 minutes away. Rent a car if you can, because rideshare gets shy this far out at night. We're looking into shuttle options between the hotels and the venue, and we'll update this page when we have news.
Make a weekend of it. Raleigh's food scene punches way above its weight, the NC Museum of Art is genuinely great, and Benson has a Saturday farmer's market and BBQ worth the drive by itself.
Honestly, you showing up is the gift. If you're insistent, we've set up a small honeymoon fund and the link will land right here soon. No pressure.
Plus-ones, dietary stuff, kids, allergies, that weird thing you can't remember: text Dan or email [email protected]. We answer fast, promise.
We'll keep this page fresh as the weekend gets closer. If anything shifts (weather, times, shuttles), you'll hear it here first.